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如何搭訕外國人
Folks, no matter your English speaking level, starting a conversation with a foreigner can be tricky. This is especially true when trying to talk to strangers. But, in my experience living overseas, chatting with strangers is half the fun of living abroad. Testing my language skills on unsuspecting bystanders is a great way to pass the time, improve my language, and, in some cases, make a friend! If you feel the same way, read on to learn three surefire methods to successfully start chatting with anyone you want.
朋友們，不管你的英語水平如何，和外國人進(jìn)行對話都是比較棘手的。
特別是試圖與陌生人聊天。
但是，以我在海外生活的經(jīng)驗來看，一半的樂趣來自于與陌生人交談。
在毫無疑心的陌生人身上測試我的語言技巧，是一種很好的消磨時間，提高語言能力，某些情況下，還可以交朋友的方式。
如果你跟我有一樣的想法，就讀下去，學(xué)習(xí)三種能讓你與任何一個人展開對話的有效方法吧。
Comment - 發(fā)表看法
Starting a good conversation is always related to the context of the situation. No matter where or when, just look around your environment for something to have an opinion on. Then throw a little body language towards your target and let them know that very same opinion. The most classic is anything related to the weather. Something like, “Beautiful day today; much better than last weekend!” Raining? Comment on appropriate clothing: “I probably should have worn more today.”
展開一段對話，通常與你所身處的情景語境相關(guān)。
無論是何時何地，環(huán)顧四周，去找一些東西發(fā)表你的想法。
然后向你的目標(biāo)來些肢體語言，讓他們知道你的想法。
最經(jīng)典的就是與天氣有關(guān)的。
比如說，“今天天氣真好，比上一周好多了!”如果下雨呢?對衣服做出適合的評論：“我今天應(yīng)該要多穿點的。”
Indoors is no exception, you can still comment on whatever is in your immediate area. Wanna chat up that mysterious foreigner roaming your office? Smile and mention how much better the remodeled tea room is. Maybe even offer to make a cup!
在室內(nèi)也不例外，你依然可以對你周圍的事物做評價。
想搭訕在你辦公室里晃悠的神秘外國人嗎?微笑，然后提及新改造的茶水間多么棒。
或者你還可以為他(她)沏一杯茶!
Key Examples
Outdoors - 戶外
Beautiful day today!
今天天氣真好!
Wow, can you believe this rain?
哇，這雨怎么下得這么大啊?
Indoors - 室內(nèi)
I can't believe this desk light is still broken.
我真不敢相信，這盞臺燈還是壞的。
I love the new posters. They are so much better than before.
我喜歡新的海報。
比舊的好太多了。
Ask for help - 開口求助
Sometimes the simplest way to get the ball rolling is by asking for help. Here, the sincerity of the help you need is not the point. Maybe you are 90% sure that you should jump on bus #22 but... why not make 100% sure with the help of the interesting looking stranger sharing your bench. Confirming something with the person next to you is always going to get you a response, and an opening to having a more extensive conversation. This is easily achieved with a simple, “Do you know...”
有些時候，展開一段對話最簡單的方法就是尋求幫助。
在這種情況下，你有多真誠去求助并不是重點。
也許你有百分之九十的把握，你應(yīng)該直接坐22路車，但…為何不把幾率變成百分百，向與你一同坐在長凳上的那個有趣的陌生人求助。
向你旁邊的人確認(rèn)某事，總能得到回復(fù)，還有機會展開一次長對話。
一個很簡單的，“你知道…”就能達(dá)到效果。
When appropriate, you can even bust out a “Can you help me...?” or “Would you mind helping me...?” Below are some more examples.
在適當(dāng)?shù)臅r機，你還可以甩一句“你能幫我…?”或者“你介意幫我…?”下面是一些例句。
Key Examples
At a party/bar - 派對/酒吧
Do you know anything about this DJ?
你對這個DJ了解多少?
Would you mind holding this drink real quick?
你介意幫我拿一下這杯酒嗎?
At a conference - 會議
Do you know when Prof. Smith is speaking?
你知道史密斯教授什么時候會發(fā)表講話嗎?
Hi. Can you help me with these papers?
嗨，你可以幫我分發(fā)一下這些文件嗎?
Compliment - 贊美
Nobody is gonna get upset if you kick things off with a little sugar assuming you keep it reasonable. Short and simple is usually best. For example, “I really like your shoes!” or perhaps, “Nice watch! What brand is that?”
只要你適度，沒有人會因為你一開始就說些贊美的話而生氣。
簡短通常是最好的。
比如說，“我真的很喜歡你的鞋子!”，亦或“手表不錯!什么牌子的啊?”
Don’t limit the compliments to fashion. It could be the speech they just gave: “What you just said was perfect.” Or a skill they perform well, “You really know what you’re doing.” In short, when someone impresses you, let them know.
不要僅限于對時尚著裝表示贊美。
可以是他們剛剛發(fā)表的講話：“你剛剛說的簡直完美。
”或者是他們表演的技術(shù)，“你真在行。
”簡而言之，當(dāng)別人驚艷到你時，要讓他們知道。
Key Examples
Style - 衣著風(fēng)格
That's a badass shirt!
這襯衣太屌了!
Nice shoes...
鞋子不錯…
Performance - 表演
Hey, great job!
嘿，干得漂亮!
That was pretty awesome!
那真是太棒了!
Conclusion - 總結(jié)
All of these starters are just that: starters. Once you initiate a conversation its going to be up to the two of you to expand on it. Once the chatting has begun, relax and look for opportunities to showcase your personality. Ask more questions and drop in some humor, sarcasm, or any other wit that fits. These organic conversations will continue to improve as you talk with more people. Keep it real. You don’t have to be trying to make a new best friend everytime, but if you practice enough, you might in spite of yourself!
所有這些開場白都只是：開場白。
一旦你開展了一次對話，對話的后續(xù)就靠你們?nèi)U展了。
一旦對話開始了，放輕松，找準(zhǔn)機會展現(xiàn)你的個性。
多問些問題，是不是來些幽默的，反諷的話語，或者任何能體現(xiàn)才智的話。
這些基本的對話會隨著你與人交流的次數(shù)而有所提高。
保持真實。
你不需要每次都以交到新的好朋友為目標(biāo)，不過如果你練習(xí)得足夠好，也許就真的可以噢!
Warnings - 雷區(qū)
“Where are you from?” and “What’s your name?” are overused and already super weak first-questions, but if delivered by an English speaking novice with the wrong tone, these poor openings quickly become complete turn-offs. The above three approaches are all superior anyways, so there’s really no reason to risk coming off sounding like an interrogator. You can learn each others names and hometowns as things naturally progress.
“你來自哪里呢?”和“你叫什么名字?”已被用爛了，而且頭一個問題問這個真的很弱，如果是一個英語初學(xué)者，用錯誤的語調(diào)說出來的話，瞬間結(jié)束掉整個對話。
以上三種方法都非常優(yōu)秀，所以不必冒險把自己變成審訊員。
在對話順利進(jìn)行的過程中，你自然會知道對方的名字和家鄉(xiāng)。
With that said, enjoy starting more English conversations with more people and less pressure. Whenever it feels right to wrap up the conversation, go ahead and offer them a warm wish like, “Have a great day!”
最后，希望你可以享受與更多人展開無壓力的英語對話。
當(dāng)你覺得應(yīng)該要結(jié)束對話時，最后給他們一句溫暖的祝福，“祝你有個愉快的一天!”
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